Why is loyalty so hard to find

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Notify me of new posts via email. Home About. Jun 21 Share this: Twitter Facebook. Like this: Like Loading June 21, at pm. Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here Build emotional connection with men from the start. You can do this using the dark feminine art of high value banter.

Click here to read an article on How To Banter. You could also do it by being in total silence. Loyal people naturally get to this point anyway, because they realise most people are crappy. The same thing goes with being loyal. If you try to be loyal to everyone, that ensures you will be loyal to absolutely nobody! Other loyal people feel it if you feel the need to be friendly, open, flirty and to gain status and approval from everyone. It is fear, superficiality and being insensitive.

Better still — ask someone else that question and get them to answer it for you. Sensitivity is important for relationships to last. Sensitivity is also important for noticing what people are feeling.

Our impulses can have huge consequences — especially if we say things out of anger, self doubt, resentment or envy …. If you really are a loyal person and value loyalty at all costs ie: being loyal yourself, not just demanding loyalty from others …remember that disloyal people exist as a contrast. If there were no disloyal people in the world, we would not see the value of loyal people. If you want to be supported by a warm community of high value feminine women, then join our Facebook Group.

Together with her husband D. Protip: If you want to find someone who is loyal, you probably need to display those traits. There are so many gems of truth in this article I cannot begin to comment on all of them. Firstly what you said about feeling the guilt and failure of hurting your husband, and finding out that being with him and feeling his pain is much better and feeling your own guilt and failure, that I learned a lot.

Every time I hurt my future husband I feel like such a failure. But thanks to your article, next time, I will try to be with him and … Read more ». I just love this stuff more than I can say- it is so frustrating and time consuming and dishonest to live expecting men to be like us. We know they are not, and yet we continue to enforce feminine rules in our partnerships and demand equality and compromise and sharing.

It … Read more ». This is a geat article Renee. I love your blog. As far as loyalty is concerned, I put people in the category of a tree. The majority of people are the leaves on the tree.

They take from the tree and give shade every now and then. The season changes, they wither and die and are gone. Some are like the branches. You have to be careful with the branches. LOVE the new article Renee! You help me know myself better. I will take what I have learned from the feminine woman with me for … Read more ». Wow, thanks Renee, I have truly learnt a lot about being loyal. My problem is, I tend to attract disloyal people, but now that am aware of what to do, I know now what to look for in meeting loyal people.

I love this so much!!! You never fail to enlighten me with every article that you put out, Renee. Hi Renee I like this article a lot. It is coming to me at a time where I have just changed and continue to change a huge number of things in my life… And much of it in the past 6 months!!

I recently sold my business, a bakery, because my heart and energy were ready to move on. I got engaged to a dear man who wants to provide a wonderful life for us. I moved out of my apartment and into a beautiful home that he both purchased and remodeled for us.

Our wedding is less than a … Read more ». Oftentimes, if the atmosphere around us is hostile or adverse, being loyal can be extremely difficult. It allows you to be true to yourself and to your values, which is something not many people can say for themselves these days.

Being loyal means being thoughtful, devoted, and vulnerable. The harsh truth is, even the people we love the most are capable of betraying us. Never let your loyalty become slavery. Our past choices and mistakes are what made us the people we are today.

We should never hide or run from our past. Instead, we need to accept it and be loyal to it. If you are a genuine, loyal person, then you will treat everyone with the same respect and consideration. Unfortunately, there are many people you should never give your trust and loyalty to. These are the ones who guiltlessly betray others.